That’s the only thing I can think of to call it. I don’t see how someone can just run around with the express purpose of making someone else’s life a pain in the ass. Yet that is what I see on a daily basisThe GF’s Daughter and Son are the culprits. He likes to try and upset her and he does a pretty good job of it, and really it wouldn’t be all that big a deal except for the fact that he does this when she is trying to do homework or is involved in something else that needs her attention. He really doesn’t care how much stress it causes on the rest of the house in fact he really doesn’t act like anything about anyone else matters at all.
And his attitude is just horrible. I think the best comment I heard said was “I don’t care what mom says I’ll do what I want” This was in response to him doing something he was just told that he couldn’t do. Which was writing on some paper we needed to deliver his ass to his band trip middle of the month. I mentioned without it I wouldn’t know when I had to drop him off to catch the bus to the trip. He said I’ll just get a friend to take me, which I pointed out that none of his friends have cars or a lisence to drive said car. Then he piped up with well their parents can which isn’t going to happen since we don’t know any of his friends parents.
I don’t really know what to do about this shit part of me just wants to hand him a phone tell him to dial 911 and then just beat the living shit out of him till he figures out that his behavior is unacceptable. I really don’t get this shit you’re not supposed to beat your kids and yet whole generations have turned out pretty well adjusted. And yet now if you spank a kid you have a very real chance of going to jail for awhile. Though these kids that aren’t getting a foot up their ass are doing shit like running with gangs, bringing guns to school, Stealing.
I know when I was his age if I had said or did any of the things he keeps doing I woulda wished I was dead after the beating I would have gotten. I remember once my mother said something to me about coming in from playing football in the backyard with some friends and I stuck my tongue out trying to be a smart ass. She went inside and got this thick ass leather belt that belonged to my dad and whipped my as right there in front of my friends. Yeah that’s something I never did again.
I think alittle corporal punishment would go a long way to changing a few attitudes. I know my generation was more well behaved, you didn’t see anyone from my generation walking into a school and shooting people or onto a campus like in VA Tech and killing 30+ people. It wasn’t something you ever heard of, I guess that’s why it’s so shocking now when we hear about it.
I know I kind of rambled on past my original topic of The GF’s son that is just a total jerk to everyone. Sorry seemed Relevant